fuck yeah, sexual health
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and I love him a lot, but he does some things that bother me. He has a fetish for over feeding me and making me as full as possible. At first I thought it was okay even if it's a little weird. But I recently saw some things he's been looking at on the internet and they disturbed me a little. He also can't cum unless I tell him how full I got. I'm starting to get uncomfortable eating infront of him. It also makes me feel ugly
Anonymous

if you are uncomfortable you need to tell him. communication.

So, I had never read up on having sex because I've always been super shy and modest. I finally decided that I was ready for sex (after months of asking myself questions and making sure I was sure). I brought it up with my boyfriend and we talked about it for 2 weeks before trying anything. We didn't "get anywhere" really, because I was tired and it was kind of painful. He was super gentle and listened to whatever I told him. We're trying again soon, too. Just wanted to let you know my story :)
Anonymous

the first time can be painful.

i think its awesome that you are able to communicate with your partner. seriously, that’s the secret to a fantastic sex life!

cheers!

Similar to half the people my age or round abouts, I'm uber scared of losing my virginity. I'm 18 and I'm worried that my vagina will be too tight when I first have sex (if tightness is even a thing). I've been masturbating since I was 14, but I've only recently started inserting my fingers because I'm concerned about the fact that its going to be so tight and unused. I don't wear tampons because I find it difficult to insert them. I'm basically just freaking out a little.
Anonymous

there is nothing to worry about! the vagina can push out a baby and then relax back to its original size. but if you’re nervous id recommend using lube and, most importantly, communication with your partner.

I have a question, and I'm really hoping you can answer it or direct me to someone who can: I don't seem to get physically aroused very easily. Contact with my nipples and clitoris doesn't actually seem to do anything for me. I'm with someone who I'm extremely attracted to and I really enjoy what we do but that doesn't seem to translate physically. Is there anything I can do to address this?
Anonymous

just find out what works for you. everyone is different. life is an adventure. for some people sexual arousal is a mental thing. good luck!

My boyfriend keeps calling phone sex lines when I am not around. It makes me uncomfortable and I've told him this. We have sex fairly often (at least 3 times a week, usually more)... Is it something I should be worried about? To me, it seems like phone sex is still sex. And he's paying for it, when he could just call me. Am I overreacting?
Anonymous

almost everyone enjoys some type of pornography. its perfectly healthy unless it takes up a significant amount of time or one’s life revolves around the consumption of it, like any addiction.

if you’re concerned that there is an there are theraputic options available.

I recently started the pill and was wondering if you have to be off the pill for the whole seven days or could start another packet before the whole seven days are finished? Too embarrassed to ask anyone.
Anonymous

it depends on the pill.

What are your views on a friends with benefits relationship?
Anonymous

as long as both parties consent rock on!

Do you answer sec tip questions??
Anonymous

do you mean sex tip questions? if so then yes.

In the New York Museum of Sex, there’s a bouncy castle made of bo*bs

fucknodumblr:

garybuseythereal:

did-you-kno:

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"bo*bs"

I wonder what’s behind that asterisk. Maybe a pizza, or George Bush.

aspiringdoctors:

pro-choice-or-no-voice:

To start off Birth Control Appreciation Day, I decided to make an informative masterpost on contraceptives! I hope this helps anyone who may want more information on their birth control or someone trying to decide what kind of birth control is best for themselves! Happy (birth control) hunting! - Paige
DIFFERENT TYPES OF BIRTH CONTROL:
Birth Control Pills - [x] [x]
Mini Pill (Progesterone-only Pill) -  [x]
The Patch (Ortho Evra) - [x] [x]
The Shot (Depo-Provera) - [x] [x]
Birth Control Sponge - [x] [x]
Vaginal Ring (Nuva Ring) - [x] [x]
Spermicide - [x] [x]
Implant (Implanon and Nexplanon) - [x] [x]
IUDs (Mirena, Skyla, and ParaGard) - [x] [x]
Condoms (Male and Female) - [x]
Withdrawal (Pullout Method) - [x] [x]
Diaphragm - [x] [x]
Breastfeeding - [x]
Cervical Cap - [x] [x]
Sterilization (Male and Female) - [x]
Abstinence - [x] [x]
Fertility Awareness-Based Methods (FAMs) - [x] [x]
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT BIRTH CONTROL:
Do certain medications make my birth control less effective?
Can I delay or eliminate my period with my birth control?
Will my pregnancy tests come out with an accurate result while I’m on birth control?
Can I use several birth control pills at once in replace of an emergency contraceptive?
Does birth control cause weight gain?
What should I do if I miss a pill?
What should I do if the condom breaks or slips off inside of me?
If I’m on the ring or the patch and I forget to replace it on the right day, do I need to use backup?
I’ve heard that the birth control ring can pop out. What should I do if this happens?
Can birth control increase my risk of getting cancer?
Can you change your mind after having a tubal ligation or vasectomy?
Is it normal to spot or bleed in between periods while on birth control?
Does certain hormonal birth controls affect my blood pressure?
Can being overweight affect my birth control’s effectiveness?
Can certain birth controls lower my libido?
EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTIVES:
Types of EC: Plan B / Ella / ParaGard IUD - [x] [x]
What are emergency contraceptives?
How do they work?
How well does it work?
What are the side effects?
When should I take an emergency contraceptive?
Are emergency contraceptives less effective the heavier you are?
If I am under the age of 18 in the US, can I buy emergency contraceptives without my parent’s knowledge or consent?
If I take an emergency contraceptive today, am I covered if I have unprotected sex tomorrow?
Will taking emergency contraceptives too many times affect my fertility?
To find more questions and answers about emergency contraceptives, you can go here.
Información anticonceptivos de emergencia es disponible en Español, aquí.
OPTIONS FOR PEOPLE WITH ALLERGIES AND/OR CERTAIN PREFERENCES:
Condoms for people with latex allergies.
Condoms for vegans. [x] [x] [x]
Other vegan contraceptive options.
Different types of birth control without estrogen.
Contraceptives without any hormones.
Birth control methods that are useful to people with religious concerns. [x] [x]
OTHER BENEFITS OF TAKING BIRTH CONTROL:
Taking oral contraceptives can help lower the risk of endometrial and ovarian cancer.
Using birth control helps treat acne.
Birth control can help treat the pain caused by Endomitriosis.
Contraceptives offer relief to people with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS).
Anemia can be avoided/treated by using birth control.
Irregular periods can become more regulated by using birth control.
The pill can lead to fewer ectopic pregnancies.
MYTHS ABOUT BIRTH CONTROL (All the myths below are dispelled through the links given):
Emergency contraceptives and birth control pills cause abortions.
Free contraceptives and/or condoms makes people participate in risky sexual behavior.
The pill makes you gain a lot of weight.
Douching after sex prevents pregnancy.
You have to start your birth control on a Sunday.
Taking the pill for a long time can make you infertile.
Hormonal contraceptives protect you from contracting STIs.
You don’t need to be on birth control while breastfeeding.
I won’t get pregnant my first time having sex.
The Pill is effective immediately after you take it.
I won’t get pregnant if I shower or pee after sex.
My body needs a rest from birth control at least once a year.
Emergency contraceptives are affected by alcohol.

This is wonderful!

aspiringdoctors:

pro-choice-or-no-voice:

To start off Birth Control Appreciation Day, I decided to make an informative masterpost on contraceptives! I hope this helps anyone who may want more information on their birth control or someone trying to decide what kind of birth control is best for themselves! Happy (birth control) hunting! - Paige

DIFFERENT TYPES OF BIRTH CONTROL:
  • Birth Control Pills - [x] [x]
  • Mini Pill (Progesterone-only Pill) -  [x]
  • The Patch (Ortho Evra) - [x] [x]
  • The Shot (Depo-Provera) - [x] [x]
  • Birth Control Sponge - [x] [x]
  • Vaginal Ring (Nuva Ring) - [x] [x]
  • Spermicide - [x] [x]
  • Implant (Implanon and Nexplanon) - [x] [x]
  • IUDs (Mirena, Skyla, and ParaGard) - [x] [x]
  • Condoms (Male and Female) - [x]
  • Withdrawal (Pullout Method) - [x] [x]
  • Diaphragm - [x] [x]
  • Breastfeeding - [x]
  • Cervical Cap - [x] [x]
  • Sterilization (Male and Female) - [x]
  • Abstinence - [x] [x]
  • Fertility Awareness-Based Methods (FAMs) - [x] [x]
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT BIRTH CONTROL:
EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTIVES:
OPTIONS FOR PEOPLE WITH ALLERGIES AND/OR CERTAIN 
PREFERENCES
:
OTHER BENEFITS OF TAKING BIRTH CONTROL:
MYTHS ABOUT BIRTH CONTROL (All the myths below are dispelled 
through the links given):

This is wonderful!

thorlokibrother:

People need to stop perpetuating the myth that polyamory can’t be healthy.

Source

angelica-aswald:

ophelia-tagloff:

lokiwholockfactory:

ophelia-tagloff:

lokilockedcougar:

sarabeth72:

theflowerwithoutfragrance:

nerd-dom:



Must do some research on this…

I don’t think that’s enough incentive to drink coffee…

For reals? Must research this….

Well, that explains some things.
Two Double Espressos, please.


Are you sure that’s tea he is drinking, girls?

"Ehehehe.. I am going to cum so hard later…"

nadinenixon YOOOOO DUDE *does research* 

angelica-aswald:

ophelia-tagloff:

lokiwholockfactory:

ophelia-tagloff:

lokilockedcougar:

sarabeth72:

theflowerwithoutfragrance:

nerd-dom:

Must do some research on this…

I don’t think that’s enough incentive to drink coffee…

For reals? Must research this….

Well, that explains some things.

Two Double Espressos, please.

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Are you sure that’s tea he is drinking, girls?

"Ehehehe.. I am going to cum so hard later…"

nadinenixon YOOOOO DUDE *does research* 

asanaambitions:

Friendly reminder to check your breasts while you’re just sitting there scrolling the internet, then reblog so your followers do the same. Two people I know were just diagnosed within the same week.

asanaambitions:

Friendly reminder to check your breasts while you’re just sitting there scrolling the internet, then reblog so your followers do the same. Two people I know were just diagnosed within the same week.